Today’s weight loss success story: Blogger Kena lost 118 pounds. Check out her weight loss blog www.fat2phat2fit.blogspot.com. Here is her weight loss story:
My issues with food started in my childhood. I was a picky eater that was addicted to junk food. In hindsight, I can see that the behaviors I displayed back then set me up for failure as an adult. I never cared much about ‘meals’, but present a dessert, a bag of Cheez Doodles or a package of cheap, hard, cream filled sandwich cookies (preferably lemon) to me and I was in heaven. I could survive on processed, high carbohydrate foods without giving protein, fiber or vitamins a second thought. My mother baked and cooked most of our meals from scratch. I thought ‘homemade’ was so old fashioned. I didn’t want baked macaroni and cheese, give me the processed Kraft macaroni and cheese! You know, the throwback kind in the skinny box that came with cheese powder and was a neon orange color. She made us eat shredded wheat, raisin bran and cornflakes. The day my father brought home Pop Tarts you’d think he’d been found guilty of child abuse. My mother wanted us to eat healthfully and prepared nutritious meals. As a child, I wanted no parts of that. I carried those behaviors into my teen and adult years. Needless to say those high carb, fast food and processed food habits landed me on the door step of 300lbs. My journey has been going on for about a decade now. I’ve hit several plateaus along the way. Fortunately I never put the weight back on. Once i lost it, I lost it. I just got ‘stuck’, or my effort level wasn’t enough to produce actual results. I commend those that can lose 100+ lbs in a year. It took me nearly ten years to lose 120 lbs, but I am more than thankful for the journey and the knowledge I’ve learned along the way. I’m only about 25-30 lbs from my goal weight/size. Whichever comes first!
One of my favorite quotes is from G. I. Joe. “Knowing is Half the Battle”. You can’t successfully overcome any issue without fully understanding what is causing it. Being REAL with yourself about your workouts, what you’re eating and drinking is the bottom line. Track your food intake until you get this weight loss thing down pat. Stop worrying about your hair, what other people think or how expensive your sneakers and athletic wear is. Educate yourself, there are too many free, reliable resources found on the internet to be ignorant about health and nutrition.
I’ve used Weight Watchers, appetite suppressants, protein meal replacement shakes, as tools in my journey. These were just TOOLS. I had to put in the work. Having a support system is great. But someone else should not determine how well you progress on your weightloss/health journey. At the very least you should invest in:
A gym membership, (there are a few nationwide franchises that offer $10/monthly memberships, There may be a planet fitness franchise in your area) OR Fitness DVDS (collagevideo.com is an EXCELLENT online source) OR Create your own gym at home (kettle bells, jump rope, resistance bands, etc are great if you don’t have a lot of room)
Also: a heart rate monitor, a good pair of sneakers, a good sports bra all are essential. (When I couldn’t afford a good sports bra, I wore two cheap ones at a time) .
Find a Zumba class, or fitness boot camp in your area to help add variety to your regimen.I don’t skip breakfast, skipping breakfast sets your day up for failure. Other than my protein shakes I choose not to drink my calories. Soda, tea, alcoholic beverages, and juice consumption are limited. Try diluting your favorite juice blend with a flavored club soda or sparkling water. Fruit infused water is another of my favorites. A crockpot is soooo old school but comes in handy. You can prepare healthy meals for yourself or your family with a little bit of prep work. Soups, stews, chili and other one pot meals are right at your fingertips.
I watch my carbohydrate intake. You don’t have to follow a low carb lifestyle, but limit the white: sugar, breads,potatoes and rice. Fruit and veggies are great NATURAL snacks. I enjoy eating and making kale chips and sweet potato chips.
Don’t eat what you don’t like. You’ll only be miserable trying to follow a ‘diet’ comprised of foods that you don’t enjoy. This is all about a lifestyle change that you can LIVE with.
Don’t worry about how you look to others when you start your fitness journey. Just do you. Don’t let self doubt hinder your success. Don’t allow the “I Can’ts” keep you from being the person that you want. I was fortunate to have a great trainer that pushed me outside of my comfort zone. I cried when I was mad at him for pushing me. I cried when he pushed me to success. I would have never believed that I could run a 5K or do a wall sit for 12 minutes. I’m not the ‘face’ of fitness. (And you don’t have to be either). The full hips and thighs on my ‘pear’ shape isn’t the status quo for fitness. And I’m perfectly OK with that. I am recreating the ‘face’ of fitness. This curvy, pear shaped African American woman is strong and determined and that is all that should matter.
I’m also trying my hand at blogging. Check my ‘baby’ blog out at www.fat2phat2fit.blogspot.com
Ladies, Weight loss blogging is a great way to share your story, share your struggles and share your success with others who are losing weight. I’ve created a quick guide to setting up your weight loss blog. Check it out.
kb says
Luv this! congrats to you! You look great.
kena says
Thank you so much! My next goal is to be leaner and stronger.
Tracie says
I im speakless… But I will say you go girl and keep going. God is good you look wonderful.
kena says
Yes HE is!
Shawnta says
I like that. Slow and steady. Good job
kena says
Thank you!
Freda says
Thank you for all of the information you shared. You look wonderful, you’re very encouraging and good luck to you!
kena says
I’m glad that my lengthy story wasn’t information overload! Good luck to you as well.
Bey says
You look amazing & thanks for sharing. It’s women like you & stories like yours that remind me that there’s hope in tomorrow. I struggle with 20lbs & you have did that 5 times over encourages me to get into gear. I will most certainly be following you on your blog. Do you have a Facebook, Twitter or Instagram account that has additional tips from you?
kena says
Hi Bey, primarily I’m using my blog as my voice. I do have a twitter account that I just activated a week or so ago, but there isn’t tons of activity yet. Definitely feel free to follow me though. https://twitter.com/fat2phat2fit
I plan to put it to use.
Check out my blog if you haven’t already done so.
http://www.fat2phat2fit.blogspot.com
Just keep your eyes on the prize no matter how bleak it becomes. You’ll be surprised what you can accomplish when you don’t give up.
Terra says
I am at the beginning of my journey and I try to read success stories daily. This one is the best one I’ve read so far! Your attitude is good and you provide good practical ways to get it done. You also helped me, give my self permission to invest in my journey. I am learning to manage my expectations for this journey — I feel your article helped!!! Good Job!!! Proud of you and I am working on my “After” Story!!!! Thanks for sharing!
kena says
Awww thanks so much. I’m glad that my story touched you. Investing in YOU is the #1 investment you can make.
Monica Spatcher says
I luv your story….OMG!!!!slow and steady is the way thanks so much for shaing your story.
kena says
You’re welcome. I totally agree that losing weight slowly is the best way to go. You have an opportunity to actually learn and adopt the changes that you have been making….versus everything becoming a blur. You have to focus on more than the scale to be successful.
Gloria T says
First, congratulations on your awesome weightloss! You look beautiful! Also thank you for your in depth story and all your ideas and suggestions.
kena says
You are so welcome. I hope you are able to use some of the suggestions to help you achieve your goals.
Cherron R. Wilson says
great job you look amazing, keep up the good work
kena says
Thanks!
Regina Pouncy says
You look awesome Thank you so much I’m struggling right now with my self and I needed to see this today oh my God your such an inspiration “)
kena says
Thank you! I promise you, if I can lose 100+ lbs anyone can. It’s not the easiest thing to do, but don’t ever give up on yourself. You have to identify the areas where you are struggling and then come up with a game plan on how you’re not going to allow those things to hinder your success.