Weight Loss Story: Jessica lost 26 pounds in 3 months. This proud soldier and mom dealt depression and the trials that come with divorce, which contributed to her weight gain. After a photo wake up call, she changed her daily habits and wants others to know that ” it’s never to late to late to pick yourself up again.” Check out her story…
Hi My name is Jessica and I love your page. I follow BWLW for a daily dose of motivation. All the stories are truly inspiring! I wanted to submit my story because I am very proud of the progress that I’ve made and want to share with you and all my fellow sisters.
For at least a year, I’ve struggled with my weight. My weight gain was mainly due to stress but the fact that I kept the weight on was due to depression. I was going through so much everyday, being that I was newly divorced and in a constant struggle with my ex over our son. Times were indeed hard. I knew I had put on weight but it didn’t seem like I could do anything about it. I found out I was deploying and then the thought of leaving my son started really weighing heavy on me. I’ve never been a heavy person but somehow the weight just came on. I wasn’t doing anything except feeling sorry for myself.
I started my weight loss journey after a fellow soldier took some pictures of me walking back to my barracks. When she showed me the pictures, she said “You’re almost busting out of that uniform.” She didn’t know that I was already internally depressed about my weight, but in any case she helped me. That was a wake up call and I made a decision that day to start getting fit and stop being depressed.
My weight was 201 pounds the first time I stepped on a scale and it was very depressing. I’m 5’7″ tall and felt so depressed about my weight that my self-esteem plummeted. I didn’t feel beautiful or even remotely attractive. I also felt like a horrible soldier. I let myself get to a point where I had to squeeze into my uniform and couldn’t pass a PT Test. I’m a U.S. soldier we are supposed to be fit physically and mentally. At that time, I was neither.
Well, I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started working out. I cut out ALL fried foods and limited myself with the amounts of bread I eat. I also started substituting the heavy meals I was having for breakfast and lunch with fruits and a meal replacement shake instead. For dinner, I eat veggies and lean protein only, such as chicken breast, turkey, and fish. I started making a journal log of all the foods I ate everyday in order to hold myself accountable. I also increased my water intake to about a gallon of water a day. I only drink water, never anything else (no juice or soda or flavored water). It keeps me hydrated for my workouts.
I have grown to love running. It not only helps clear my mind and ease my stress, but it is a great fat burning, cardio workout. I’m not a heavy weight lifter, but I do lift small amounts of weight to help tone my arms. On April 2nd 2015, I weighed in at 201 pounds and as of today I weigh 175 pounds. I lost 26 lbs in 3 months.
I also want to say that I did suffer a hip injury in May. I couldn’t workout for three weeks but I kept up with my diet and thankfully didn’t put on any weight without exercise. That made me realize that weight loss is highly dependent on what you eat.
I want people to know that no matter how low and depressed you may feel it’s never to late to late to pick yourself up again. Life is truly about learning how to dance in the rain. I’ve never felt more confident and proud of myself for overcoming my own negative thoughts!
Instagram: @I__am__jess
Teena says
Wow and thanks for sharing such an amazing story. I need to lose 50lbs and can’t seem to stay motivated. I had such a horrible vacation due to my weight and I hate what I see in the mirror….I will try once again tomorrow ….
Darlene says
Never give up. I start over repeatedly. I lost 50 pounds last year and it’s been a struggle this year. I realized I was gaining weight. So I started back exercising and watching my diet. If you mess up do better the next meal and do some form if exercise. Jogging in place is pretty easy and can be done while watching tv..don’t give up!!
Sheena says
Jessica…thank you for sharing your story. I would like to join the Army, but my weight is the problem. Reading your story motivated me. I dealt with depression and separation from my “normal”. All I wanted to do was sleep and eat. I hate to run. However, I know that I need to especially if I would like to call myself a soldier again. Well…keep up the hard work. You have others looking at you for inspiration 🙂
Dee says
Jess, thank you for your story and encouraging words. I started out doing the JJ Smith smoothie and I did lose 10 lbs. then I got at a stand still with my weight and began eating things that I should not eat With portions. After reading your story, I am going to get back to eating right again. Thank You for your inspiration, I needed that. Stay strong and I will do the same. You look great 😀.