Update January 2021: Frenchette let us know that she’s lost 28 more pounds for a total of 113 pounds gone.
Over a year and a half post-surgery, Frenchette has exceeded her weight loss goal. Currently weighing 117 lbs, her goal of a healthy BMI has also been met. She no longer has issues with high blood pressure or sleep apnea. She is thankful for the weight loss surgery, and attributes her work with a personal trainer, walking, and healthy eating with reaching and maintaining her weight loss goal.
Transformation of the Day: Frenchette lost 85 pounds. Asthma, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and sleep apnea could not stop her. This proud Zeta Phi Beta soror took action through Gastric Sleeve surgery, healthier eating habits, and walking.
I’m a 50 year old married mother of one who at the age of 48 woke one day and realized, if I wanted to make it to 50 and beyond with any quality of life, I needed to do something different. Already living with asthma, I had high blood pressure, high cholesterol, sleep apnea, and back and knee issues that required surgeries. I faced all of this while weighing 230 pounds at 5ft, 1.5in tall.
I saw my son lose 80 pounds as he prepared himself for the Air Force, so I knew that it could be done. I started my journey in November 2017.
Exercise: I began by walking. At first, it went around the block. Then, I did 1 mile, and eventually, I got up to 3 miles. I worked out 3-4 days a week.
Eating Habits: I also started with pan cooking and then moved to Freshly, a meal delivery service, when my work/travel schedule became too busy because I didn’t want that to sabotage me.
I realized that while walking, healthier eating, and calorie counting were causing some weight loss, I needed a permanent solution. I decided to have the Gastric Sleeve procedure on May 22, 2019. After surgery, I ate smaller portions, cut down on sugars, drank more water, and continued to count calories.
I now weight 145 pounds. My ultimate goal is 130 pounds, but I am happy with where I am because I’m healthier than I’ve been in a long time.
I have learned that you have to do this for yourself because you love yourself. It’s okay to be selfish and take care of yourself. I spent a lot of my life taking care of my spouse and my child while forgetting/neglecting myself. You also need a support system. I appreciate my sorority sisters, Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated, and their focus on self-care and being fit.
Advice: Start somewhere. Just make the first step. When I first started walking, it was just around the block, but I was moving. When I began to change the way I ate, it was pan cooking instead of eating out and being consistent with it. The first step in changing your life is to make that first step and be consistent. You are worth it!
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Anna says
You look absolutely gorgeous…. who was your doctor that performed the procedure and how much does it cost and how long was the healing process??
Bertha says
I will love to lose 50lb
TJ Taylor says
Very inspiring story, Soror! Super proud of you for putting YOU first, crushing your goal, & settling for nothing less 💙🕊 Thanks for sharing as every success story benefits others who want to get in the path/are on the path to weight loss & feeling discouraged. 💙💙💙💙🕊 #ZPhiiiiii #FitToFiner #itsStillOurCentennial #soSweet
Diana says
Great Job Soror! Speaking from personal experience surgery is a tool. I’ve lost 95 pounds. My surgery date 11-30-19. My starting weight 262; my current weight 170. Im 5’’6’ NOT everyone qualifies for the surgery so that’s where the negativity and salty attitude comes from. @Truddie Jones
You can have the surgery and continue to have poor eating habits but you must change your eating habits along with your mind set.. again it’s a tool that helps you to obtain a more healthier lifestyle and live longer.