Update Feb 2020: Shout out to Deborah! She lost 136 pounds and she has kept the weight off by being consistent and staying focused. Meal prep, portion control and learning how to control her cravings were all key factors in her success.
What is your current weight?
I weigh 191 pounds, standing at 5’9″ and a half.
How have you maintained your weight loss/continued to lose weight?
I still eat healthy 85% of the time. For the other 15%, I still use portion control. If I have a craving, I substitute it or have a very small amount of the food I’m craving and then work it off. I still meal prepping my lunches for the workweek EVERY Sunday. I also still prep healthy snacks and fruit.
I continue to work out 3-5 days a week (I may even do a 6th day if I’m feeling really good). I’ve upgraded to doing Hip Hop workout classes (once or twice a week) outside of my gym and home workouts.
Of the lessons you’ve learned on your journey, which one stands out the most at this point?
Never forget where you started from, and always stay focused on where you’re headed.
Would you like to offer any new or different advice to women who want to lose weight?
- Everyone won’t agree with your decision, and that’s fine because it’s not for them to agree with YOUR decision to better YOURSELF. Stay focused and do what’s best for YOU!
- Remember, it’s a LIFESTYLE and not a DIET!
- It’s a JOURNEY, not a RACE!
- Take ONE day at a time!
- One pound is a LOT, be PROUD!
- You Got This!
- It’s a MIND thing. Once you set your MIND to it, Take OFF!
Transformation of the Day: Deborah lost 135 pounds. This Alpha Kappa Alpha soror found out that her weight was taxing and wearing down her heart, causing a slower heartbeat. Also, keeping up with her athletic son’s schedule was becoming a challenge. She decided to take action. Check out her story.
What was your motivation? What inspired you to keep going when you wanted to give up?
I am from Oxford, MS. I am 35 years old, and I have a 12-year-old son. My motivation was my son and my heartbeat, which was slow due to my weight. My son is very athletic, and it was hard to keep up with him as we traveled to practices, games, tournaments, and championships. When I went in for my annual, my doctor noticed that my heartbeat was slow. She knew I was perfectly healthy, but my weight was wearing and tearing at my heart at the age of 33.
When I wanted to give up, what inspired me was my son and a photo of me at my highest weight.
How did you change your eating habits?
I changed my eating habits by learning to eat healthy 85% of the time. I prepared healthy snacks and meal prepped for my work lunch. I would eat an egg a day (egg muffin, crack an egg bowl, etc.), 3-4 oz of meat, and 1 cup of vegetables. If I eat any kind of carbs, I will only eat ½ cup. I don’t have carbs with every meal or eat them every day. I drink plenty of water, drink protein shakes, and use portion control.
If I were to eat something not so healthy, I would eat a small amount just to knock the urge off and then work it off. I stopped drinking anything that’s made with sugar. I use Splenda in my coffee as a sweetener, and I no longer buy drinks for the house. If I have a drink at a restaurant, I only get one cup (no refill, no to-go cup), and I get a cup of water also. I also stopped frying food in my house. If I have a taste for something fried, I will go to a restaurant and get a kid’s meal to knock the urge off.
What did your workout routine consist of?
I have a gym membership at a 24/7 gym where I do all types of cardio, leg workouts, abs workouts, cycling, use the elliptical and lift weights. I also work out outside when it is warm. My outside workout consists of running the hill, walking the square, or Lamar park trail. My home workout consists of air squats, jumping rope, jumping jacks, scissor legs, and crunches. I work out 3-5 days a week.
What was your starting weight? What is your current weight?
When I started this journey, I weighed 327 pounds. Today, I am weighing in at 192 pounds.
What is your height?
I am 5’9″.
When did you start your journey? How long did your transformation take?
I have been on the journey on and off since 2004. I would lose weight, and then I would gain it back, plus more. This last transaction, I have been consistent since 2017.
Is weight loss surgery part of your journey?
Yes, I had Gastric Sleeve surgery on June 18, 2018. Some people think that it is the “easy” way out, but it really is not. When you wake up, you will be the same size, and you still have to eat right, workout, use portion control, and drink plenty of water to work your tool. There are so many people who talk down on the procedure, but I guarantee if they had the extra funds, the insurance, the paid time off, and completed the eight-month process to get approved for the Gastric Sleeve, they would do it also… instead of judging the people who have. This was one of the best decisions that I have made, and if I had to do it over again, I would. I am very pleased. I will continue to stay focused, set another goal, and reach it.
What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned so far?
I think that my biggest lesson on this journey is to always do what is best for you. There will be people who will not be happy for you. There will also be people who do not agree with your decisions but keep pushing. You will lose friends and family when you start doing what is best for you! Live your life!
What advice do you have for women who want to lose weight?
If you want it, go for it! No matter what weight loss road you take, it will not be easy, but it will be worth it in the end. It is all a mindset thing. Stay focused and determined.
Instagram: @d_dunn.1908
L Denise Jonson says
Thank you Soror for being honest and transparent! You have inspired me with your story and given me the courage to press forward in my weight loss journey.
Laura says
LOVE it! Do what’s best for you…
Monika Morgan says
You look amazing. Keep doing it and no matter what people say .
Eujene says
I admire your story well done
Joane Smith says
Hi Deborah, you and others are an inspiration to me. I live about 45 minutes from you. In Quitman county. I read these stories because they incourage me with my life style change. You have done a great job on your journey. Hopefully by the end of the summer I will be posting my success. Keep up the good work. Never listen to people they will talk regardless of what you do. I think it’s jealousy, especially when you are successful. You look great keep up the good work.